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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 09:18

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why can't NASA just bite the bullet and launch a plainly simple mission, audited by flat earther peers start to finish that definitively proves to even the smallest minds that the earth is an oblong spheroid, and not flat?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Ask yourself:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Have you been with a stranger yet?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

During the Atlmark incident in 1940, the Brit war criminals violated Norwegian neutrality. Hitler could then justify invading Norway. Have the Brits ever apologized for violating Norwegian neutrality?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What's your wildest & weirdest fantasy?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How severely should I get punished? Please describe throughly. Today I got my result of my test nd I found out that I failed in 2 subjects, my parents are currently in abroad nd I lied to them about the fail but I feel guilty now.

Does not procrastinate.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

I am so tired of ignorant people like you calling us far rights, why democrats is so educated, they take things from their own mouth, you guys are totalitarian party?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What I need from you?

Why did the Soviet Jews hate the Soviet Union?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Since the rise of feminism, the dating market has shifted to the disadvantage of men and that is causing this incel phenomenon. Why do women not understand how lonely the majority of men are?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hangs out with loser friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do people have to be a pastor to baptize?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

If people in the UK hate Trump so much, why does he own golf courses there?

Procrastinates a lot.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

That's it for today.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.